Wondering why your dog seems to prefer a particular person in your household?
This behavior, often seen as a "choice," is based on a combination of instinctive, emotional, and social factors. Let's discover together how your dog decides on his owner and how to strengthen this special bond.
Dogs are social animals that form strong bonds with their humans. When a dog chooses its owner, several criteria come into play. One of the main ones is attention. Dogs are naturally drawn to people who meet their needs: food, walks, care, and affection. If there is one person in the house who spends more time interacting with the dog, it is likely that they will become its primary attachment figure.
Emotions also play a crucial role. Dogs have an incredible ability to detect human emotions. A person who is calm, gentle, and consistent in their interactions is more likely to gain a dog's trust and love. Conversely, stressful or unpredictable behaviors can disrupt the bond and influence the dog's "choice."
The dog's age and previous experiences also influence its preferences. A puppy in the middle of socialization (between 3 and 14 weeks) is particularly receptive to positive interactions with humans. Similarly, an adopted adult dog can develop a strong attachment to the person who rescued or welcomed it into its new home.
Why and how does a dog choose its owner in a shelter or breeding?
When a dog arrives at a shelter or a breeder, he relies on his instincts to determine who will be his main point of reference. At the SPCA or in a shelter, dogs often experience stressful or uncertain times. They choose their owner based on the first person who inspires confidence and security. If an adopter or volunteer offers them attention, reassuring gestures and a soothing voice, the dog quickly establishes an emotional bond.
In a breeding facility, the process is slightly different. Puppies grow up surrounded by their siblings, under the supervision of the breeder. When future owners come to meet the puppies, they instinctively respond to nonverbal cues. The choice of owner may depend on energy, scent, or even the way the person interacts with them. A curious and playful puppy will be attracted to someone who plays with him, while a shy puppy will prefer a more gentle and calm approach.
In these contexts, the initial attachment is formed quickly, but it can evolve. Once the dog is integrated into its new home, its "choice" can be influenced by who spends the most time with it, responds to its needs and plays an active role in its daily life.
How can we strengthen this bond?
If your dog seems to prefer another family member, don’t despair! It’s still possible to strengthen your bond with him. Spend more quality time together, play interactive games, offer him treats, or teach him new tricks. These activities will strengthen your relationship and help you become an important figure in his life.
Understanding why a dog chooses its owner also helps you better meet its emotional needs. A happy and well-surrounded dog will develop strong bonds with the entire family. If you share responsibilities, such as walks or meals, each member of the household will be able to build a unique relationship with the dog.
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